Parenting
"Lalayet pancavarsani dasa varsani tadayet prapte tu sodase
varse putram mitravadacaret"
Till the age of five, pamper a child, Through the next ten years, enforce strict discipline. From the sixteenth year, treat the child as a friend.
- Chanakya Niti.
Parenting is one of the most important period in a man's
and women's life. Most parents think parenting as disciplining their child.
In Vedic Tradition it is said that, Parenting is
Self-diciplining the child within. Most parents yell at
children's mistakes, hardly noticing that that trait is actually one's own
self reflection. Through child if parents take attempt to grow with their
children, finally both of them would make a wonderful family.
Family values and tradition is on the verge
of crashing. We all want a peaceful world without any participation. When we
create a peaceful family, a family without violence, then the world would
naturally end up peaceful.
All cultures in the world have their own tradition and
values. Parents must introduce such samskars
(Tradition) to their children with "Freedom" to inquire the Value of such
traditions and live to that values. This gives a sense of direction to
their life. Blindly doing rituals without knowing the value will bring
dishonor to the tradition.
Without meaningful
traditions and rituals, people would be psychologically sick. We would have
materialistic comforts with inner peace. In all traditions, the value of
rituals is to bring inner peace.
Weak Parenting brings forth mentally troubled children who would grow into
society inflicting adults. We are directly or indirectly responsible to all
the good and bad occurring in this world. Parenting is the first individual
responsibility of every man and women from their part to create a harmonious
world.
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Brain Power
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