Life becomes
always blissful 24 hrs a day, seven days a week if we live life with full
awareness. Now our happiness in life is conditional, which means we are in
the happy state the way the mind dictates so. If we live life in the happy
state whatever the conditions may prevail, it leads to unconditional
happiness or bliss. Bliss is unconditional happiness.
To stay
happy irrespective of all conditions in life is bliss. It is does not mean
that one will not cry, feel sad, sorry, etc. These are emotions which will
arise based on the situations. To get caught up in these emotions without
being aware of it is the problem.
Look at babies,
how blissful they are. They do express emotions, they cry when they feel
pain. But that is only for a moment. They do not have a hang over of it.
They do not get caught with that emotional feeling. They express it and
then they let go of it and then are in the present again.
Children are also are
found bubbling with energy. We have a bigger body and have
more strength than the kids, yet the kids can run around the whole day and
never get tired. This is because they are in the present and do not have
hang over of the emotions they under go.
If children are
the present, in the awareness state, then why do they get diseases? A good
question. The answer is that kids are the projection of the minds of the
parents. This is why ancient masters emphasized the pregnant mother to pay
attention equally to the body and mind. Unfortunately mothers pay
attention only to the body and not to the mind. Stressful mind of the
pregnant mother expresses as diseases in the kids. More
details in pregnancy section.
Getting back to
our discussion of unconditional happiness, we do not let go of anything
and that eats up our mind and generate stress. To let go of things, to
accept the reality of the present, which means to accept what is happening
around is the way to have unconditional happiness. In later chapter we
will discuss more about the power of acceptance, the biggest stress
reliever.
Unconditional happiness
cannot happen until fear is removed. fear is the main force behind the
stress in mind. we will discuss about it.
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